How to Be a Grown Up

Description

Okay, let’s be real—adulthood can feel like a complete mystery sometimes. I picked up How to Be a Grown-Up because, honestly, I was tired of feeling like I missed the memo on how to handle life’s responsibilities. This book is like having a big sibling or a wise friend who walks you through all the stuff you wish someone had told you when you were younger.

The author gets it—being an adult isn’t just about paying bills or figuring out what “mortgage rates” actually mean. It’s about balancing work, relationships, self-care, and everything else without losing your mind. What I loved most is how relatable the advice is—it’s not preachy or overwhelming. Instead, it’s filled with practical tips that make life a little less chaotic and a lot more manageable.

What I Learned from This Book

This book made me rethink a lot about how I approach adulthood. Here are a few things that really stuck with me:

1. Boundaries are key. I’ve always struggled with saying “no” because I didn’t want to disappoint anyone. This book helped me understand that setting boundaries isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for my mental health.
2. Take ownership of your time. The chapter on time management? Game-changer. It showed me how much time I waste worrying about things I can’t control instead of focusing on what I can.
3. Adulting doesn’t mean perfection. This one was a relief to hear. It’s okay to mess up as long as we learn and move forward. Progress beats perfection every single time.
4. Self-care isn’t just bubble baths. It’s about taking care of your emotional and financial well-being, too, which is something I’d honestly been neglecting.

Why I Recommend It

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by adulthood or like you’re juggling way too much, this book will speak to you. It’s lighthearted yet incredibly insightful, and it doesn’t make you feel bad for not having it all together. Instead, it gives you practical tools to feel more in control of your life.

I walked away feeling more confident and less stressed about the whole “grown-up” thing. So, if you’ve ever found yourself googling “how to adult,” trust me—this book is worth your time!